Change or Not Change ..!!

Somebody says...never change urself,u r best at what u really r.

Other says......resistance to changes might not help u in facin challenges.

I say.......the biggest challenge is to be what u really r in this world,
where people try to make u someone else....

Love is ...

LOVE

If you have it,

you don't need to have anything else,

and if you don't have it,

it doesn't matter much what else you have.

Life..

A lot of things go unquestioned,
A lot of questions go unanswered,
Few words go unsaid,
Few go unheard,
Some dreams are BURRIED alive,
And we call it LIFE.

Pyar ke liye chaar pal kam nahin the - 2
Kabhi tum nahin the kabhi hum nahin the - 2
Pyar ke haseen kab yeh mausam nahin the
Kabhi tum nahin the kabhi hum nahin the - 2

Yeh din barson ke baad aaya
Kuch tumhe, kuch hamein yaad aaya
Kasak phir yeh dil mein uthi hai
Honton pe baat aake ruki hai
Kabhi itne majboor to hum nahin the - 2

Pyar ke liye chaar pal kam nahin the
Pyar ke haseen kab yeh mausam nahin the
Kabhi tum nahin the kabhi hum nahin the - 2

Aah aah aah, aah aah
Aah aah aah aah aah, aah aah
Agar tum yeh dil maang lete
Jaaneman hum tumhe jaan dete
Tumhe kaise hum bhool jaate
Marke bhi tum hamein yaad aate
Tumhe hai pata bewafaa hum nahin the - 2

Pyar ke liye chaar pal kam nahin the - 2
Kabhi tum nahin the kabhi hum nahin the - 2
Pyar ke haseen kab yeh mausam nahin the
Kabhi tum nahin the kabhi hum nahin the - 2

chalo ek baar phir se ajnabii ban jaayeN ham donoN
na maiN tum se ko’ii ummiid rakhuuN dil navaazii kii
na tum merii taraf dekho Ghalat andaaz nazroN se
na mere dil kii dhaRkan laRkhaRaaye merii baatoN meN
na zaahir ho tumhaarii kash-ma-kash kaa raaz nazroN se

chalo ek baar phir se ajnabii ban jaayeN ham donoN

tumheN bhii ko’ii uljhan roktii hai pesh-kadmii se
mujhe bhii log kahte haiN ke ye jalve paraaye haiN
mere ham-raah bhii rusavaaiyaaN haiN mere maazii kii
tumhaare saath bhii guzrii hu’ii raatoN ke saaye haiN

ta’arruf rog ho jaaye to us ko bhuulnaa behtar
ta’alluq bojh ban jaaye to us ko toRnaa achchaa
vo afsaanaa jise ajnaam tak laanaa na ho mumkin
use ek Khuubsuurat moR dekar chhoRnaa achchaa

chalo ek baar phir se ajnabii ban jaayeN ham donoN

And a translation .............,

Come, let us be strangers again, you and I.

I shall no longer hope for any favours from you
Nor shall you look upon me with eyes askance.
And my words shall tremble no more with my heartbeat
Nor the secret of your struggle be betrayed in a glance.

Come, let us be strangers again, you and I.

You too have hesitated to give yourself completely
I too wear disguises, or so I am told
The disgraces of my past are my constant companions
And you too are possessed by the nights of old.

When involvement becomes illness it is best forgotten
When a relationship oppresses it is best to break it
When the adventure you are embarked on cannot be completed
One must find a beautiful way out, and take it.

Come, let us be strangers again, you and I.

Dedicated Lines ....

In Hyderabad I led my life being a chakor ...
So these are the lines "Dedicated to Chaand" ... in my LIFE ...

Chaand ko kyaa maaloom ...
Chaahataa hain use koee chakor....
Wo bechaaraa door se dekhe.....
Wo bechaaraa door se dekhe.....
Kare naa koee shor.........

By Chakor..

" There is a prevalent tale told by Punjabi saints. It’s about a bird named ‘CHAKOR’.It is said that this bird is crazy in the attraction of moon’s shining light. Aiming the moon, it just flies toward it, in same struggle its heart stops beating and it dies. It never cares about its surroundings. The story proves a reality also said as “ A man is never defeated but killed”.

Try to be like that Chakor, no doubt you are really powerful and can do marvelous deeds, but keep in mind that way of doing deeds should be pure, sacred and aimful.Just finish it if your inner side permits you and then never think upon what you have done. It is really merciful seeing people locking the stable door when the horse is stolen.So leave thinking about thinking about others , let the people think about you. Just take your next step according to your own choice and let no one govern you. Don’t be the part of that helpless mass, who from the fear of result restrains itself from playing a tune. "

My thoughts ... which I belive in ....

• “LAUGH as much as you BREATHE and LOVE as long as you LIVE”.

• When there is death of a person NAME is mentioned but whereas when there is a death of people in an accident then NUMBER is mentioned.

• GOD is one. GOD is a SUPERPOWER. GOD is SUPREME SOUL.

• Nature is very powerfull. You are helpless against its force. Nature is beautifull.. admire it !!

• The devil is in the details ! - When people say that the devil is in the detail, it means that small things in plans and schemes that are often overlooked can cause serious problems later on.

• Memories play a confusing role. They make u laugh when u remember the time u cried together! But make u cry when u remember the time u laughed together.

• Love and Attachment People often wonder how to reconcile the Buddha's teachings on non-attachment with those on love. How can we love others without being attached to them? Non-attachment is a balanced state of mind in which we cease overestimating others' qualities. By having a more accurate view of others, our unrealistic expectations fall away, as does our clinging. This leaves us open to loving others for who they are, instead of for what they do for us. Our hearts can open to care for everyone impartially, wishing everyone to be happy simply because he or she is a living being. The feeling of warmth that was previously reserved for a select few can now be expanded to a great number of people --from Taming the Mind by Bhikshuni Thubten Chodron, published by Snow Lion Publication

• The greatest regrets in our lives are the risks we did not take. If you think something will make you happy, go for it. Remember that we pass this way only once. Love can only be constituted by a unique soul that lived in two bodies. Sweet words are easy to say, Sweet things are easy 2 buy, but sweet people are difficult to find. Life ends when U stop dreaming, hope ends when U stop believing,love ends when U stop caring, friendship ends when U stop sharing. To love without condition.to talk without intention. to give without reason .and to care without expectation.is the heart of a true friend.

• ONE PARAGRAPH THAT EXPLAINS LIFE!................... Arthur Ashe, the legendary Wimbledon player was dying of AIDS which he got due to infected blood he received during a heart surgery in 1983. From world over, he received letters from his fans, one of which conveyed: "Why does GOD have to select you for such a bad disease"? To this Arthur Ashe replied: The world over -- 5 million children start playing tennis, 50 thousand learn to play tennis, 5 thousand learn professional tennis, 50,000 come to the circuit, 5000 reach the grand slam, 50 reach Wimbledon, 4 to semi final, 2 to the finals, When I was holding a cup I never asked GOD "Why me?". And today in pain I should not be asking GOD "Why me?"

• SOME CRAZY THOUGHTS! ................. Do fish ever get thirsty? Why can't we sneeze with our eyes open? Did you know it is impossible to lick your elbow? If you are born on February 29 of a leap year, when is your birthday? If you stick on stickers on non-stick pans, would they stick on? Do sheep get static cling when they rub against one another? Why don't ducks duck when you shoot at them? On a telephone, why does ABC start on the number 2 and not 1? Why did Superman wear his briefs on the outside of his tights? Why do the numbers on the phone go one way, but the numbers on the calculator go the other way? What does the T in T-Shirt really mean?